Saint Stephen’s Daily Prayers, Wednesday, May 18, 2022

Staying Safe and Staying Connected

 Good Morning, Saint Stephen’s Church,

 We continue our life of daily prayer. The Lord be with you!

Alleluia. Christ is risen.

The Lord is risen indeed. Alleluia.

Today’s Prayer


Creator of all humans,

You give personal uniqueness to each of us,

while forming us to need others as community.

We vacillate, Lord, between two extremes:

Fierce individualism and sought-for interdependency.

At times, we seek and need time alone,

Time to unplug from the multiple voices within and without.

At times, we seek and need spiritual companions,

Those who fill in our emptiness and hold our confidences.

For our struggling, muddied thoughts and complicated, inner desires

demand these two responses:

time alone with You, countered with

the caring touch of others

who share laughter birthed in absurdity,

who dry stinging tears birthed in futility.

How rich is your Word, overflowing

with stories of faithful battered pilgrims who

found respite in solitude and with friends, seekers like:

Moses and Joshua,

Hannah and Eli,

David and Jonathan,

Elijah and the widow,

Jesus and Martha, Mary and Lazarus,

Paul and Timothy.

So our prayer this day, Lord,

is for the ability to discern our biggest spiritual void—

Whether for the good sense to pull away for awhile,

Or for the humility to accept the gracious touch of another.

In gratitude we recognize that your Spirit of care for us

trumps our fear,

the fear of being abandoned and alone.

And we ask that we be caringly sensitive,

open to walk alongside others whose

needs are equivalent to ours,

those who yearn for similar wisdom and friendship.


–         Virgil Fry

Virgil Fry is Director Emeritus of Lifeline Chaplaincy, a non-profit organization providing spiritual care to patients in a variety of Texas hospitals. He holds a doctorate in ministry from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary in Christian Nurture and is the author of two books, Disrupted: Finding God in Illness and Loss and Rekindled: Warmed by the Fires of Hope.

From Our Prayers of the People 

For the special needs and concerns of our congregation. 

For people throughout the world: in places of war and strife, and for all victims of violence and oppression.  

For the Presidents of Russia and Ukraine, that wisdom and courage may prevail in the cause of peace.

For the people of Ukraine, the people of Russia, and for all who affected by violence and war;

For those who have taken up arms, whether aggressively or defensively, that a spirit of peace may reign in their hearts and in their lands.

For our allies around the world in harm’s way: for those who are still trying to leave Afghanistan and the Ukraine; may God be with them and their families.

For comfort and healing for all who are affected by the Coronavirus around the world:  for physicians, nurses, and all others who minister to the sick and the suffering, and for those administering vaccinations, may God grant them wisdom and skill, sympathy and patience, and may God keep them healthy and safe.  

For all historical acts of injustice and oppression: especially those perpetrated against native, Black, Hispanic and various Asian Americans in this abundant land, that we may recognize racism in ourselves, in our church, in our society, and recognize the times we have failed to take action. 

For a reverence for the earth as God’s own creation: that we may use its resources rightly in the service of others and to God’s honor and glory, and for wisdom, guidance, and persistence as we face the challenges of climate change and work for the flourishing and health of all the earth. 

For those on the Parish Prayer Chain: Oonie, Walker, Gerald, Dan, Mary, Bill, Diana, Jackie, Susan, Adrian, Hugh, Craig, Marilyn, Sylvia, Laura, Angelina.

For our Government Leaders: Joseph Biden, President of the United States; Kathy Hochul, Governor of New York State; Gary McCarthy, Mayor of Schenectady.

For our Church Leaders: Justin Welby, Archbishop of Canterbury, Michael Curry, Presiding Bishop; Michael G. Smith and Carol Gallagher, Assisting Bishops; James and Dennie, our priests; Pat, our deacon emeritus and Allison, our Lay Reader.

For those who are imprisoned: those particularly vulnerable at this time, especially the women in the Schenectady County Jail.

For Members who request our prayers for strength and healing: Mary Ann, David, Janet, Marilyn, Eunice, Ruth, Mary Frances, Vincent, Priscilla, Joe, and all their families. 

For Timothy – today is his birthday!

For all the blessings of this life.

For our dioceses in the Anglican Communion:The Diocese of Llandaff – The Church in Wales.

For all who have died:  Melanie Kidder, Harry Wemple, Gwendolyn Robbins, Grant Towne, and Donald Atkinson.

For one another.

Something to share

Even the Stars Look Lonesome

Many believe that they need company at any cost, and certainly if a thing is desired at any cost, it will be obtained at all costs. We need to remember and to teach our children that solitude can be a much-to-be-desired condition. Not only is it acceptable to be alone, at times it is positively to be wished for. It is in the interludes between being in company that we talk to ourselves. In the silence we listen to ourselves. Then we ask questions of ourselves. We describe ourselves, and in the quietude we may even hear the voice of God.

–         Maya Angelou

News and Updates 

Hi-Tech Parish Ministry – If you are interested in learning how to live-stream our church services there will be a training after church on the 22nd. Please meet Dan Schuldt directly following the service in the front of the church. 

Confirmation – A special Coffee Hour to honor the confirmands will be given on Sunday, May 22nd in Begley Hall after church. All are invited!

SiCM Emergency Food Pantry – The pantry is in desperate need of cleaning supplies for their guests.  Basic items from discount retailers are always appreciated:  bleach, glass cleaner, bathroom cleaners, and both laundry and dish detergents.  Laundry detergent pods and strips are especially helpful.   Please buy in bulk rather than the smaller containers; SiCM gives out only 4-6 oz of each cleaning product.   If you have them, please donate small plastic bottles for the detergents and cleaners, such as empty 8-oz Ensure or Boost bottles – with lids!  They can always use them.  Thank you for all the contributions so far.


If you have an update/news, a prayer or poem or something inspirational you would like us to share with the congregation, please send it to us. Please also send us any prayer requests. We will incorporate these into the Daily Prayers as best we can:

Prayerbook Morning Prayer in Zoom – each morning.  Join Dennie and me for an inter-active service of Morning Prayer at 9 am. Time to bring your prayer concerns will be provided.  (contact Becky for the link:

If you need a prayerbook, and are not in a position to purchase one, please contact me: I will make sure you have your own Book of Common Prayer. 

Masks are optional for all gatherings at the church.

Our office email is:

Our goal is for all of us to stay in touch and connected.

Irish Blessing

May the road rise up to meet you,

May the wind be at your back,

May the sun shine upon your face,

he rains fall soft upon soft upon your fields,

And until we meet again

May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

Be of good courage. We are in this together, and we will be together again soon. God bless you and may God be with us in the days ahead.

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